Well, then there was me. I never
did like boys too much. They could be
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Margaretha and Astor |
good friends but if they tried to get
serious, that was the end of it. I wasn't ready for that. Maybe God had other
plans for me in California. Both Sara and Margaretha were married in the Kisa
church and the custom then was to have a dinner afterwards in the bride's home.
I took my vacations from work so I could be home and help get ready for both
those weddings. I said over and over at that time that when I got married I was
going to run away because this was too much work. Then when I got married here
in California, Margaretha wrote, "You always said you were going to run
away, but did you have to run so far?"
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Margaretha and Astor |
And then Margaretha. I don't think
she ever really looked at anyone but Astor. Dad liked him well enough but he
said they couldn't get married until Margaretha had an occupation and she had
to work at it for a whole year before they could get married. Dad believed that
everyone needed to know their own mind a bit. So Margaretha went to Linköping
and went to beauty college. This fit Margaretha really well because she'd
always had an eye for what looked good, and she had such a way of arranging
simple things and making them look really nice. She lived with Hildegarde and
Midi at the time.
Well, Farbror Folke didn't agree
with this at all. He said it was sinful to focus on beauty. He tried and tried
to talk her into quitting but Margaretha was determined. When she got through
with beauty college, Dad helped her and she bought a place in Linköping. It was
an apartment where there was a beauty
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Margaretha doing Annika's hair |
parlor at one end and living quarters at the
other. I was working in Linköping at the time so I would go and visit her and
she would come and visit me. When the year was up, they got married. Lennart
and I were in on the ceremony as bridesmaid and groomsman. Then she sold the
beauty parlor and she would fix hair for the neighbor ladies, Ingrid Davidson,
Ingrid i Gräsvidra, Karin i Björndahl and others. They came and had their hair
fixed at her place. Margaretha did well. She and Astor had three kids,
AnnCathrine, Helene and PerAnders. When Astor got sick and he couldn't keep on
farming anymore, they bought a beauty parlor in Valdemarsvik and moved there.
Margaretha kept on there until she retired. She still lives in Valdemarsvik.
It's been great fun to take the kids and family there to see them through the
years.
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Lennart and Annika's wedding |
And then comes Lennart. He wanted
to go into the military too, but Mama cried and cried and cried and cried. But
Dad, he said, "Let the boy go." Dad remembered that he didn't get to
do what he wanted to when he was young. So Lennart went into the Air Force and
he learned to work on fine instruments. He also went to school some that way.
Lennart had a couple of girlfriends but nothing serious. It just never felt
right until he found Annika. Then he said to me, "This is It!" We
were all happy he found Annika and then they had two boys, Magnus and Henrik.
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The Boberg kids -- Sara, Gun, Brita, Lennart and Margaretha, Midsommar 1990 |
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